She hadn’t thought he would really go through with it. She’d laughed away his warnings; waved away his entreaties to behave with a casual “Yeah yeah, whatever.” She’d openly laughed in his face when he’d warned her that she was heading for a spanking.
A spanking? For fuck’s sake! What do you think I am, a fucking schoolgirl?
That had given him an idea. When she’d refused to do so voluntarily he’d seized her by the hair and manhandled her up to her room. Ignoring her squealing protests, he’d stripped her naked, pulled her old school uniform from the wardrobe and, with liberal assistance from his belt, had persuaded her to put it on. Then he’d taken her by her ear, led her across the room and flung her down over the desk. For a full five minutes he’d given her a good leathering, until she was squealing and shrieking and promising to mend her ways.
And now, when he allowed her up, he could see the change in her. There was respect in her eyes where there had been fear. The beating had been good for her; and she knew it. He had finally connected with her.
She looked at him warily, still breathing heavily from the exertions of her punishment. What was he going to do with her now?
"Keep that school dress on. You’re going to be spending a lot more time in that from now on. Get downstairs - yes, into the living room - and get in the corner. Face the wall. Keep your dress pulled up. Hands on your head. We’re only just getting started, my girl."
I Had a recent request for a helpful chart for placements of spanking strokes for basic discipline spankings. though spankings in essence are a very safe thing as you are striking a very padded area, but its important to know the zones and what sort of risk is there if you strike haphazardly. Always make certain you are paying attention to how hard and where you are striking. You as a spanker you want to bring your spankee to tears…but you do not want to hurt them or cause damage or a situation where outside aid is needed.
There also is a time and a place for a more erotic spanking those which do include the light smacking of genitals and even the very tender of holes, but those are never to be struck unless you have BOTH agreed to do so before hand, and much communication and care in doing so, and should not be apart of a basic, therapy or discipline spanking.
One: Buy condoms. Buy them and keep them with you at all times, and use them before you are asked to use them. And use them every time. The peace of mind you allow your partner will free her to be vulnerable with you, and that, my son, is exactly what sex is about. Condoms are sexy. In fact, call buying condoms foreplay.
(Footnote: If you are too embarrassed to buy condoms, you are not ready to have sex.)
Two: Kissing is not merely foreplay. Spend entire evenings making out on the couch while fully clothed. Believe me, dry-humping rocks.
Three: Sex is not just about friction. It’s about emotion. Stop trying to find her clitoris and find her heart. Because then she’ll help you find her clitoris.
Four: If you really wanna know how to please a woman, ask her how she masturbates. Then do that. A lot. If she claims she doesn’t masturbate, offer to take her shopping for a vibrator so you can both learn the vocabulary of her body together.
Five: Don’t put anything in her butthole you wouldn’t want in your own.
(Footnote: Try a pinky finger, it’s kinda awesome.)
Six: When you go down on her—and you will go down on her, and if you are my son, you will be amazing at it—tell her how good she tastes. Stop in the middle and kiss her deeply so she knows how good she tastes. Do the same when she goes down on you.
Seven: A simple Google search will yield 1,327 euphemisms for male masturbation, yet only 23 for female masturbation. If guys spent less time jacking off and more time jilling off, this world would be a happier place.
Eight: Everything you need to know about the importance of the clitoris is in the movie Star Wars. You are Luke Skywalker piloting your penis-shaped X-Wing Fighter deep inside her trench. Remember: seventy percent of all Death Stars cannot be blown up through penetration of the trench alone. It must be through focused contact with that little exhaust port at the top of the trench. Otherwise, any explosions you experience will be merely Hollywood special effects.
Nine: Just because you come doesn’t mean she has, so don’t you dare come before her. Focus completely on your partner. Don’t worry about gettin’ yours, you’re a guy. You always get yours. Your job is to make sure she’s gettin’ hers.
Ten: If sex with your partner lasts no longer than this poem, you are not making love. You are masturbating with her body instead of your hand. Shame on you. Go back to step one. You’ve got a lot of learning to do.
- Big Poppa E., “How To Make Love” (via mydemisee)
Omgosh goodness….i used to bite as a child. my mom would wash my mouth out with soap, which turns out can be a training method for a sub during sessions. See i knew i was born a sub ;)
Daddy like that I bite my toy , but not his arm *giggle*